是保留？还是放手？

一段很久很久的感情
当大家都到了歇斯底里的心态
彼此之间已经出现太多冲突，
你我已经不能再体谅对方时，
选择放手，还是挽留？
还是大家都宁可被责任捆绑自己和身边的人呢？

天蝎座极端，但追求和平的性格
让我觉得有些争执，如果真的不能解决，
甚至会伤害身边的人时，
我会选择放手。
或许，我还未到达他们的阶段，
有些事，可能真的负起了责任
不能说丢下就丢下的。
但是，我们能针对这些问题好好坐下来商量吗？

昨晚，他们还是闹了起来。
爸爸在客厅睡了不知道多少天了。
整件事，谁都逃避不了问题
既然父母的事，我们做子女的不能插手
但你们处理问题的手法，
可能理智一点吗？
要不离婚，要不好好坐下来谈
我根本不能想象整个情况有多么的糟糕
夫妻之间的关系，闹翻了竟然可以变得那么疯狂
我答应自己，我一定不会让这些事发生在下一代
难道心平气和，真的那么难？
放下过去，难道真的不能触及麽？
人与人相处，总是出现互补，相依靠
计较那么多，自己和别人都会好过一点吗？

其实现在的我，都会对身边的她造成很大的困扰吧。
我好像变得不可理喻，要求多多，
甚至看起来好像忽略了她。
希望她明白，这只是我心情真的糟透了
深知问题是必须被面对，被解决，
雨过，就会天晴了。
但是内心就是那么惆怅，
不知道多少天了
我总是睡得不安稳
有人说可能我撞到肮脏东西了，呵呵

昨晚，听到吵架声，
第一次参与谈判，
但明显的，我的出现根本一点意义都没有。

久别重逢

不知道过了多少时光，我回到了这边
既然我离开了心情保留箱两个星期，
这是否意味着这段时间
我失去了心情的起伏？
还是本性的懒惰呢？

说忙，倒不会，
但是时间就被塞得满满的
有天听到收音机说的
好好善待自己
某些日子，我们更应该沉淀自己，反思过去，展望未来，不是吗？

我估计事业上我会有更大的改变
能一直往上爬的工作
还记得那一天，我还兴奋到失眠了
看来啊，我必须更冷静，沉着迎战，才是成功之道啊~
我会冲刺更美好的未来！

陪你的时间越来越少
连谈电话，都好像有词穷的无奈感
这些是短暂的问题吧~
在我心中，你一直还在。
然而她，或许只是我生命中偶然的过客
这样的选择，
对大家来说
都不必那么挣扎吧。
相信我，好吗？

小豹的生日照

八王爷就是爱搞我籁姨的~不过他们真的很吵，但很可爱。
呵呵~籁姨被非礼了。
前面两位好像局外者~后面的美眉们就在自high.o(∩_∩)o...哈哈











不好意思咧~迟了那么多我baru贴上来
先贴着，下次再继续写留言吧~

引人深思

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

失去了灵魂

新年过了
一切回到了平静
生活依然看起来多姿多彩
但是现在的我
内心多了一份惆怅
多了一份空虚
好像生命中失去了什么
还是我拥有的
原来很多？？？

本来小心翼翼，四平八稳的我
近来都失魂落魄
忘掉时间，到处乱撞
好想好好休息哦~
今晚就满满的睡个十小时
迎接更美好的明天吧~

对了，还要顺便提提昨晚认识的三个可爱朋友
它们分别是miki,nike和magic
电话刚好没电，郁闷不能和它们照美美
不过，它们会那么可爱，
肯定是晓庆照顾得好吧~
落在我手里
十之八九会受苦受难的~哈哈